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The Technique - How to Receive What You Lack in Life

Today I wanted to speak to you about what I do when I find something is "Lacking in my Life". One experiences this during times that you feel misunderstood or are being taken for granted for. Situations wherein no one appreciates your efforts or times when you are just seeking attention, approval or love but you get none at all.

However, don’t lose hope if you are in such predicaments. There exists “The Technique”, which is extremely powerful in helping you attain what you see as lacking in your life. This method I decided to apply on myself and the results were simply “Amazing” to say the least. Ready to know what this secret to receiving what you lack is?

The “Technique” to get what you are lacking in your life is . . . "Whatever it is that you lack in life, You first need to give it out yourself!”. Simply put, You need to GIVE OUT what you want most in your life".

I can almost hear you shouting, “But that’s so Counter-Intuitive! When I'm in a place of lack, I first want things to be given to me, only then can I even think of giving to others!” Response sounds familiar? Show of hands please . . .

Hard to believe but it is Absolutely True! They say “the proof of the pudding is in the eating.” So allow me to share you my story on how applied “The Technique” and experience its power. One time, I was not getting along with a family member, at least it was a perceived feeling that I had at the time (our ego has a way of convincing us of these things and we immediately believe what it tells us. L) I was so quick to assume that this family member was behaving in a “cold way” with me because the person must have not liked me.

Since I deeply care about having a close relationship with this person, I decided to give “The Technique” a try, which was to give out whatever I seemed to be lacking in life, the family members attention or approval. So, I consciously chose to give them Appreciation for who they are and found that it felt so good to give it. Happy to report that my application of “Giving Out" what is Lacking” resulted to a very close relationship now with that person.

When you decide to “Give Out what you Lack” there are Two (2) possible outcomes. One is that the situation will immediately turn for the better because you showed initiative. The second and sadder outcome is that you will no longer be affected because you will feel you have done you part and the other person’s indifference to your action is their chosen response that clears out any false assumptions that you may have had.

So instead of going into the “Victim Mode” the next time life throws a tantrum at you, remember to just apply “The Technique” – Give what you Lack! Forget the notion that you should also always receive something after giving.

We often think that giving or sharing what we lack will produce scarcity. But then, look at nature, when it gives it nurtures those around it. We are also part of nature, give to others what you are lacking whether it's money, understanding, a listening ear, a compliment, appreciation, love, time, undivided attention, compassion or forgiveness and watch your life dramatically improve! For it is only in “Giving that We Receive What We are Lacking.”

Hard to believe but it is Absolutely True! They say “the proof of the pudding is in the eating.” So allow me to share you my story on how applied “The Technique” and experience its power. One time, I was not getting along with a family member, at least it was a perceived feeling that I had at the time (our ego has a way of convincing us of these things and we immediately believe what it tells us. L) I was so quick to assume that this family member was behaving in a “cold way” with me because the person must have not liked me.

Since I deeply care about having a close relationship with this person, I decided to give “The Technique” a try, which was to give out whatever I seemed to be lacking in life, the family members attention or approval. So, I consciously chose to give them Appreciation for who they are and found that it felt so good to give it. Happy to report that my application of “Giving Out" what is Lacking” resulted to a very close relationship now with that person.

When you decide to “Give Out what you Lack” there are Two (2) possible outcomes. One is that the situation will immediately turn for the better because you showed initiative. The second and sadder outcome is that you will no longer be affected because you will feel you have done you part and the other person’s indifference to your action is their chosen response that clears out any false assumptions that you may have had.

So instead of going into the “Victim Mode” the next time life throws a tantrum at you, remember to just apply “The Technique” – Give what you Lack! Forget the notion that you should also always receive something after giving.

We often think that giving or sharing what we lack will produce scarcity. But then, look at nature, when it gives it nurtures those around it. We are also part of nature, give to others what you are lacking whether it's money, understanding, a listening ear, a compliment, appreciation, love, time, undivided attention, compassion or forgiveness and watch your life dramatically improve! For it is only "In Giving that We Receive What We are Lacking.”

So are you ready to start applying the concept of “Giving what you are Lacking in Life”? If you found this article to be helpful or have any questions about it, be sure to leave us a comment. Feel free to share the article with your family and friends. :)