Have a hard time forgiving someone? Maybe it's time to let go. Let go of what? Let them go. Continue to hold onto some friendships might be draining you, damaging your self esteem. Holding onto grudges only burns us, and not the other person. When people show us who they are or what truly matters to them, we must believe them.
With friendships or anything in life: I'm an "All In" type of person. I can't half ass anything. If I love you, I love you with all of you. I wanna be there for you. I wanna know about your life so I can support you. I wanna tell you about my life so you can there for me. Life is busy but I choose to make time for you. I hold myself to a high standard to love, and cherish and give.
When you invest time and effort in others, see how they treat you. If you don't like how they treat you, that's the time to stop and reflect and see if you wanna stick around to try 1 more time or many times depending on who it is or let go.
Not being able to let go is so Fucking draining. Make a decision. Then have the courage to delete. Learn the lessons for the experience. Let them go. This is serious personal growth work, self love expression at its best. Have high standards for yourself.
We guide others on how to treat us. Who will you choose? Do you. Always. #postfromtheheart #reflectivesundays